{"id":94,"date":"2022-04-13T15:18:48","date_gmt":"2022-04-13T15:18:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/allthingslife.info\/?p=94"},"modified":"2022-04-13T15:18:58","modified_gmt":"2022-04-13T15:18:58","slug":"handling-emotions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/allthingslife.info\/?p=94","title":{"rendered":"Handling Emotions"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Did you know emotions only last about 90 seconds?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Have you ever felt stuck in an emotion?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>We all have.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes for hours, sometimes for days, or even years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The truth is, research shows us that emotions are actually experienced for 90 seconds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We can all learn how to watch our emotions come and go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Here is a practice you can use to separate yourself from your emotions and allow yourself to be free from cycles of getting stuck in emotions:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>1.) Move Your Body:&nbsp;<\/strong>moving your body can help you work through difficult emotions. Go for a walk, dance, or shake. Notice how the emotional energy in your body changes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>2.) Stop telling a story:&nbsp;<\/strong>think about it, how often have you kept telling a story about what happened. Maybe you call your friend and tell them the story about what happened with your ex over + over. Maybe you continue to vent with your sister about your mom.&nbsp;&nbsp;The more you re-live an emotionally stressing experience, the more your body does too. Keep this in mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>3.) Reframe:&nbsp;<\/strong>the way we talk about emotions, has a lot to do with how we feel. Instead of saying \u201cI am angry\u201d or \u201cI am sad\u201d start&nbsp; saying: \u201cA part of me feelings sad right now.\u201d Or \u201cRight now, I\u2019m feeling a lot of anger.\u201d All emotions are healthy, and it\u2019s important to remember we aren\u2019t our emotions,&nbsp;<em>we experience our emotions.<\/em><br><em>Practice these steps and notice how much more emotionally resilient you are.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Did you know emotions only last about 90 seconds? Have you ever felt stuck in an emotion? We all have. Sometimes for hours, sometimes for days, or even [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-94","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mental-wellbeing"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/allthingslife.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/allthingslife.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/allthingslife.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/allthingslife.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/allthingslife.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=94"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/allthingslife.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":95,"href":"https:\/\/allthingslife.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94\/revisions\/95"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/allthingslife.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=94"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/allthingslife.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=94"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/allthingslife.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=94"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}